Giving compliments to women is an area of seduction that a lot of guys get very wrong. You see, most guys think that the best way to get a girl interested in them is to literally "shower" her with compliments. Well, the fact is that in some cases, this may work, but in most cases, this will kill all chances of seducing women. In many situations, giving a girl a compliment will actually REDUCE your chances of seducing her. And even when the situation is right to give her compliments, you have to know HOW to deliver the compliment. If you get it wrong you could destroy any attraction she may have had for you. But if you do it right, you immediately get the girl "hooked" on you and increase your chances of seducing her by about 1,000%. The best way to compliment a girl you want to seduce is to use what I call the "Qualified Compliment." Basically, a qualified compliment is a compliment which has two parts to it: 1) The actual Compliment (which is flattering to the girl), and 2) Some kind of Standard she has to live up to (in order to impress YOU) These types of compliments fly "under a girl's radar," and sound quite like a normal compliment until she reflects on itshe'll suddenly realise that it's not a FULL compliment, that there's something missingand this will then compel her to start seeking your approval, and once she starts doing thisYOU'RE IN! Let's check out a couple of examples. The first one goes something like this, you could say to a girl, "You know, I just realised somethingYou're absolutely beautiful. In fact, you would be my absolute perfect woman if you were just a little bit taller, just like two inches or so." This sounds very much like a compliment but you still hold something back (a standard; in this case, her HEIGHT) which she hasn't got. She would then begin to see you as a guy with very specific standards, and that is hugely attractive to women. She'll also start thinking that she is somehow inadequate (in your eyes) and try to show you that she can make up for that shortcoming in other ways. For example, she may wear high heels the next time she sees you just to show you that she can appear taller. Obviously you can replace the standard of "height" with anything else like her tan, or shoes or something like that. You see, psychologically, if you can get someone to start "qualifying" themselves to you and fighting for your approval, they will become more and more attracted to you. The second example is probably even more interesting. You say something like this: "You know, you are one of the most stunning girls I have seen in a while. In fact I'd say you're definitely in my top 9 or 10 girlsI've known quite a few nice looking girls but I learned that every one has certain unique qualities that set her apart from the next one. And a girl like you reminds me of that unique type of beauty among all women." A compliment like this will make her realise that you have high standards in women, and although she's beautifulyou're not overwhelmed by her because you have a lot of female friends who look just as beautiful as her. She'll want to set herself apart from the other girls in your life by impressing you in other ways and of course, this leads to her becoming subconsciously attracted to you. The more she tries to "qualify" herself and seek your approval, the more attracted to you she gets. |
