Your divorce can be avoided if you are prepared to use a simple but powerful solution. The divorce climate was created by wrong feelings, wrong thoughts, wrong words and wrong actions. Right about when you thought things could not get worse you allowed yourself to get involved in hurling personal insults at one another. You can begin applying the simple but powerful solution to divorce avoidance by asking your chosen life partner to meet with you at a coffee shop away from your home. At the coffee shop take your partner's hand look directly into their face and tell them you are sorry for all the unkind things you have said to them. Ask for their forgiveness for all your unkind thoughts and feelings. Tell them you are going to work hard at never upsetting them again. Tell them you treasure your marriage to them. If, because of the past hurts they have trouble looking directly at you, just give them a gentle prompt to look at you. Hold your gaze upon them and focus on deep loving thoughts as you speak. The message carried between the words, as you hold your loving gaze, will have a powerful impact when backed with a sincere heart. In this simple but powerful way you will be affirming your continuing devotion to them and letting them know that your love for them is far stronger than attack upon your marriage. Copyright 2006 Kenneth Little |
